You know I really hate this thing about consoling others, hate providing advice, hate meddling into other people’s business or even tried pretending to be so nice out of a sudden. The reason was that I feel that humans are all so weird.
When someone does something for you intentionally, you will never learn the word “appreciate”. This happens when one gets too close to the other and only close enough to even forget about “courtesy”, “gratefulness”, “politeness”.
So if it is really so unappreciative about all these tiny stuff provided, then you really got to learn to be independent. Learn to grow up. Learn to accept the harsh truth. Learn to prove things right!
Respect is earned, not given by someone out of kindness or sympathy. If you think that one day being too friendly or too easy with a person resulted in some “push over”, then stop. Confiscate all these privileges to make them understand that you are the one who make the choice. Not them. Never leave your life and destiny in the hands of others. Advice provided is for you to evaluate, not to follow so the decision still lies with you.
So my dear friend in “general”! Learn to answer for your behaviour and be appreciative to things that happen around you. And you will be happy. Definitely happy about things!
*This post is to all except my best friend!
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