Saturday, March 26, 2011

My mid life reflections!

Im 30 this year and even being a guy, i do get quite alot of naggy comments on my single status. It just seems that everyone is over concern over whether i might be able to get married in the next few years. Well i do appreciate the nice little concerns because you care about me as a friend or family.
But seriously if i did not meet the right girl, which is part of my uncontrollable destiny and fate, there isnt much i can do right?
Yes, i know i know, i should be attached because most of you are attached and if not some married.
Problem is, i am not really in the hurry to just jump into a boat just because im at that age and i seriously haven't found any boats around me. I am like rehearsing my lyrics over and over again when people ask me the same question.

Haha, the biggest joke that i have was over a gathering yesterday with this "friend", call her LL, she was all along detestable since Poly days. I really don't understand why she always think she is great when she mimic a goblin. We were all discussing about family and careers when she decided to edge me over something(all the time) after feeling slightly inferior to whatever and she just announce to everyone, she got her HDB flat & she is attached...n i should just go apply my HDB myself when i hit 35...bla bla bla...
Well, firstly congrats to her for finding the "one", its definitely not easy for her...next maybe just a caution to her that she should be aware that thou getting a HDB, she wasnt married yet...anything could happen...and lastly, i don understand why she take pride off being married? Ermm cos becos all alone she feel she is collecting dust on the shelf?

I know im a little sarcastic but i really don like her.
And my dearest friends, i am suggesting that if you really meant well for me, introduce me to more suitable and unsuitable friends of yours! For this, i will really give you a big hugs with thanks:)

Moving next to my career, i know all along im an average B person. This apply to my study days and now my working life. What i have is extremely good socialising abilities at work that make me blend well into a completely different environment fast. Apart from this, i don see myself as a extrememly capable staff. Well, i guess i do still have my strength and luck has always been with me at work. So for now, im quite happy with my job and my position. This wont last forever i think.

And thanks Sharon for her ever encouraging words. She knows me really well n i am glad to have a friend like her. This goes to all my friends out there, u know who u are. I thank u for being my friends and supportive towards me at all times! Thou we may not contact frequently, u know im always there for u too :)

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